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This Tired, Overstimulated Mom Of 2 Young Kids Says Having Children Is So Overrated

Most of us wish to have kids and a family of our own. Yung iba pa nga, humahanap ng ibang paraan para magka-anak kung hindi sila makapagconceive naturally.

Kaya lang, kapag nandyan na ang baby o kaya’y 2 or more na maliliit na mga bata, sadyang naiiba na ang buhay ng mga nanay.

Tulad nitong OP (original poster). Dahil sa hirap at pagod nang pag-aalaga sa 2 maliliit na mga anak ay naiisip niyang sana ay maibalik na lang ang dati niyang buhay noong wala pa siyang anak.

Basahin ang buong kwento niya rito.

Having kids is so overrated

I have 2 kids, and this is what I think now.

Don’t get me wrong, I love my children more than life, pero sometimes, I feel like I just wanted to go back to my life pre-kids.

Nami-miss ni momshie ang life niya nung single pa siya at walang kids.

Yung I can do whatever I want, without being responsible for the life of these little people.

Maybe I’m just selfish, idk.

Must be nice to sleep whenever I want without someone waking me up kasi nag-poop sila or magising ka bigla na kung anu-ano na ang pinakelaman nila sa bahay.

She felt very restricted, and dami niyang worries.

Or go out for coffee kahit kailan ko gusto without having to worry about them.

Not to mention the sky-high tuition fee.

And my boobs! Wala na silang laman ngayon because I breastfed both of them.

Feel na feel natin ang pagod ni momshie.

I’m so over stimulated everyday.

Gusto ko na lang mag isa.

Ito pala ang reason kung bakit sobra siyang exhausted.

Just wanted to add po na I am a wfh mom. I work GY shift.

So please forgive me if I feel exhausted sometimes, because I take care of the kids all day then work all night. Plus chores sa bahay.

It gets tiring. Trust me.

Kapit lang, momshie. Ito, basahin mo ang mga words of encouragement ng mga Reddit users.

Source: Reddit/OffMyChestPH

Mas mahirap talaga pag newborn and toddler stage.

Source: Reddit/OffMyChestPH

Kaway-kaway sa mga naka-memorize na ng Cocomelon songs at Ms. Rachel’s rhymes.

Source: Reddit/OffMyChestPH

So true, momshie! Kaunting tiis lang.

Source: Reddit/OffMyChestPH

Korek! If you can afford it at kung may magbabantay naman sa mga kiddos, take some time off, momsh.

Time flies so fast. Cherish the special moments you have with your kids, momshie. With a blink of an eye, hindi mo mamamalayan, malalaki na sila at hindi ka na nila kailangan.

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