Guy friend cheated on his ex with 2nd girl.

The 2nd girl begged for guy friend to choose her. Guy friend and 2nd girl are officially a couple.

Guy friend cheated on 2nd girl, but again, 2nd girl begged para maging sila ulit (ayon to sa kwento ni Guy friend).

Parang nag-iba ang ihip ng hangin.

Ever since Guy friend and 2nd girl become a couple, the vibes went off.

Guy friend would complain to me about how 2nd girl’s life mission is maging sentro ng buhay niya si Guy Friend.

Guy Friend would also complain about 2nd girl’s personality. Bottomline: maraming changes and complaints.

Medyo awkward na, pero nakikinig pa rin siya.

I felt uncomfortable, pero I listened because baka need ng listening ear. I was being a good friend kumbaga.

But I guess napuno na ako.

More complaints galing kay Guy friend.

Guy friend was complaining about 2nd girl’s incompetence and skill issues when running their small accessory business.

He complained how immature magpatakbo ng negosyo yung 2nd girl niya. He was basically babysitting a child running a business.

Ayan, OP confronted the Guy friend na.

This afternoon, I told him na him complaining about his girlfriend is a major red flag.

He said, “Anong basehan mo ng pagiging red flag nyan? Relationships can be frustrating at times. Ganyan naman talaga ang mga relasyon.”

Ang reply ko, “Ever since naging kayo ni 2nd girl, nagbago ka na. Di ko ma-explain, pero best siguro na mag goodbye na tayo sa friendship natin.”

So, ito na ang ginawa nya..

Then, I blocked him.

Ako ba yung mali na tinapos ko nang ganun-ganon nalang yung 7-year friendship namin because of the way he complains about his girlfriend?

Let’s see kung ano ang sabi ng mga commenters sa hanash ni OP (original poster).

Sabi ng isang comment, huwag na lang daw sila pakialaman.

Agree ba kayo dito?

True kaya na hindi pa ready si Guy friend for a serious relationship?

Moral of the story: Kapag super toxic na ang friendship, maybe it’s time to take a breather.

Eh ikaw, ano ang comment mo sa hanash story na ito?